I want to come out to just some person I can trust

[candid bramble]

I want to be able to share my femininity with someone who can help me and protect me but I don’t know how to find someone like that, if anyone has any ideas that would be amazing

[jagged summit]

I understand that. If you don’t have anyone you could come out to in your life right now, you could look for queer youth groups near you or online.

[stone jetty]

Hi Naomi, perhaps you could see if your friends are generally pretty chill about stuff, and ask them a couple questions that could help you figure out if they're chill with your preferred gender/sexuality. If they are then great! You can come out to them (in your own time and way), which will be a huge help with at least the mental aspect, but also coming out to more friends, and also asking them for advice and if they may know of any youth queer groups you could go to, or be able to introduce you to people who they know will be able to protect you :).

tl;dr:
maybe try coming out to friends, and see if they can help you find someone that can protect you better :).