Maybe this sounds kinda drastic or anything but if you feel like they don't care about you or try to pretend your Problems aren't valid you should talk to them about your Feelings. In my opinion it doesn't make sense keeping up a friendship that hurts you more than it is helping?
#(TW: MENTIONS OF SH) I'm sick of my friends 'vents'
lean grail
I almost completely agree with suga
wintry acorn
See if they are really your friends they should Listen to it. I am not telling you to xut them out your life or anything. But you should tell them that it triggers you and you don't like what they do and ask nicely to stop it especially infront of you yk?
Well maybe yoz should zalk with your gf first about it then to get a second view since she also knows the people yk?
I wish you good luck🙏