#I'm bi and I need advice
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its ok stay calm and relax ok?
Well there are many ways to ask someone’s orientation or firstly just talk to someone about yours. Firstly there’s always the direct method where you ask their orientation pretty early on (if you’ve only met them recently). But that way can be hard and depends a lot on setting and confidence. But, personally I find it easier to get to know someone first to scope out if their views/values (through indirect topics, typically about a well known queer figure or current affairs) and if it’s considered ‘safe’ I’ll just tell them then move on pretty quickly (but that’s because I personally don’t want to make it a big deal and everyone has preferences with these kinds of things). Another way I’ve come out is just by talking about famous people i find attractive and just mentioning a couple of people that are the same gender. But yeah it’s always best to bring up topics involving queerness (laws, celebrities, etc) that don’t reveal anything about you, that way you can understand if their going to be accepting
That’s all I can think of rn, sorry if it wasn’t the most helpful or if I misunderstood anything