#i need advice

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quasi echo
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i lowkey think something is really wrong with me. i have this issue where i'll talk to people older than me (like adults) and pretend everything is fine and dandy as if they arent grooming me yk. i guess i just like the attention cause i dont really get it from my parents but last time i talked to some dude (who was like 35) i almost got kidnapped and i did that all for attention. theres also some 20 year old in my dms that im only talking to for attention. i just dont know how to stop

frigid mica
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If you can, you may need to go bold and make a cold block

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They don't deserve a explanation if they're grooming you

quasi echo
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but i just let it happen to me yk, i let them tell me these things and i just have no emotion about it whatsoever

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like occasionally i'll try to get on their good side by acting really interested and then they'll buy me things but like other than that idk why i do it and its just so hard to hit the block button

granite light
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hey, i know how that feels like. I was also someone constantly looking for older men and constantly having the urge to get their attention, you are not alone

thorny pewter
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I think you might be doing it, as you said, just for attention. maybe you just need a friend who you can truly relate with and trust. if you'd like to, we can talk a bit. I'd be happy to provide my companionship.

quasi echo