I want to come out, but I also don’t

[minor tangle]

My logic is “if straight people don’t have to come out, why should I?” think my mom would be supportive, but my main problem is my sister. She’s super homophobic, and I’m scared she won’t let me see my nephews if she finds out. Does anyone know what I can do about this? I need to get it off my chest

[alpine stirrup]

Just dont tell her until you leave the house