rls advice

[wraith granite]

i just need some adivce about haveing a irl relationshp because im about to start college soon and i havent had a real life relationship in a while most of mine been online and im scared cause what if i see my type and i become friends with him even tho i want more than that also im gaydar hasnt been working so its hard to tell if people are gay or not if its not obvious to me like if they look gay they are if they dont and they act straight its hard

[visual sorrel]

Uhhhh not my strength either but my friend told me to get with someone who I feel connected to rather than just only attracted to

Honestly u should become friends first bc then yk if u like them beyond simple attraction which is important for longer relationships