It feels like no matter how hard I try the friends I thought I just clicked with leave me and I feel like some of my current friend ships I'm barely holding onto and about a month ago I met someone I thought was really cool but they were super depressed so I helped him but that ended up taking a huge toll on my mental health an then they blocked me out of nowhere last week and idk why and it happens alot to me why can anyone just stay my friend why does everyone leave me and why do I make friends anymore if ik their all gonna leave me
#Why does everyone leave me
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To be honest I also really struggle with this to and something that really helped me is pay attention to people patterns if they are really nice and want to be friends they will continue to care for you and always be there and stay consistent with that (they may have their bad days because we're humans) but if someone is constantly being negative or if that friend was once nice and start to change and act abnormal with no proper explanation you shouldn't hang around ppl that will bring you down like that plus ur not obligated to save everyone because some ppl can figure out there own problems also if you get ditched again you must learn to be comfortable being by yourself and in your own company so stuff like this doesn't affect you that much also if they leave u shame on them because they missed out on being friends with such an amazing person hope this helps?
If I. By myself then I get in my head and me getting in my head leads to sh. But they don't gradually change either they just stop being my friend or just block m out of nowhere