So I have DID there's me Jamie who is 18 then my Main alter Jessica who is 30. Jessica is a stone cold bitch mean to everyone she talks to and is apparently a singer but not the point I have lost 3 freinds today because of her I don't understand why and I can't help it I tend to switch to Jessica involuntary and it happenes the most to switch to her when I'm overwhelmed and stressed and that's how I've been today I don't understand why people can't accept me for who I am and then there's a problem with my medication where no where has it in stock anymore nor can they get it and I'm here stuck because this medication is what's helping me not faint all the time I can't get ahold of my doctor I've been out of this medication for 3 weeks now and I've been fainting quite alot I am over this
#I'm tired of losing people and people not listing
silver spire
tiny prairie
That sounds like a really difficult situation to be going through. Im sorry you lost friends, but I’m sure you’ll have opportunities to make new and better friends.
sullen mesa
I am sorry that DID is the reason that you are losing friends, and I think that if Jessica makes your system suffer, you should discuss with your other alters, or your doctor or a therapist about how to deal with her. I feel that one alter should not be the one to ruin your entire system, so you should probably explain to your friends how you can't control what Jessica did and that you (yourself) don't want to treat your friends as Jessica does.
silver spire
I have talked to them about it and I'm working on it with my therapist and I can't talk to my alters I have not acquired that ability yet and it sucks the Jessica is the total opposite of who I am where I'm bubbly an empath a lover whatever you want to call it
tiny prairie
How about leaving a note like a journal log to obtain communication with your system, maybe write out the things you don’t appreciate and ask that Jessica be more polite.
It may or may not be very helpful but at least it’s a start on communication.
silver spire
That's a good idea