After years of discovering myself and the person I want to be, I have finally found out that I am a homosexual. Under any normal circumstances, this wouldn't be a problem, but this is absolutely terrible for my current situation.
I have been married to my wife for a very long time, and throughout our marriage, we have had three children. They are 13, 11, and 8 years old. I want to be honest with my wife and tell her about this, but I am worried about her feelings and those of my children.
My wife accepts people with 2SLGBTQIA+ identities, and if I weren't her husband, I am sure she would understand me. However, since I AM her husband, I see no other way of this ending than with a divorce.
I have great desires to have intercourse with other men, but these desires are currently insatiable (because I will under no circumstance cheat on my wife). My lust is so strong that I'm not sure how much longer I can feel happy in a relationship with a woman.
It would be great if any of you could give me some advice, but if not, that's okay too. I just love my kids so much and don't want them to have to experience what it's like to have separated parents. I also still love my wife, and even though I am not sexually attracted to her anymore, I still want her as part of my life.