so uh i had a boyfriend a couple months ago, and i told him i didn't think i should be in a relationship at the moment (this was true, i lowkey tried to kill myself and almost did) but also i just kinda didn't think we were rly a good match. but like, i think he expects me to like, be ready for a relationship later 😭 like he still wants me but i don't wanna hurt his feelings or anything but idk what to do? also a big part of my downward spiral back then was being in a relationship that i wasn't really wanting to be in? it wasn't objectively his fault or anything we just turned out to not match that well
#guys what the hell do i do about this
sterile crater
knotty agate
try to clear the confusion and talk directly if you could? That's the best advice I could give to communicate directly (though can be hard depending on situation lowkey)
knotty agate
hmm
not good advice but I would just send a message about this and then dip out of the dm mute it and look at it after a few hours
sterile crater
ah, not the right shit for the person in question ngl...
he's kinda, yknow, self blaming
he might get really hurt from that thats why im stuck on what to do
knotty agate
ah I see
this is, quite a situation 
I hope you will find a middle ground solution that would work out for bout of you
sterile crater
