#Why I hate my friend so much (TW)Fake name: the name Lila is fake

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viscid tartan
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I honestly don’t even know where to start anymore because I’m so angry and hurt. My best friend, someone I trusted with so much, has been lying to me and everyone else about ||self-harming and being suicidal||—just for attention. I supported her through so much because I believed she was really struggling, but then I found out that so much of what she told me wasn’t even true. And instead of taking responsibility for that, she turned everything around on me. She’s been spreading rumors about me behind my back, telling people that I’m the liar. She’s going around saying that my panic attacks and anxiety are fake, like I’m somehow making it all up for sympathy. It’s disgusting, and it hurts more than I can put into words.

She is also so annoying, she told me that my panic and anxiety attacks are fake and that im only doing it for attention. She also has been ||$u1c1d3 b@1t1ng || me and telling me to dig deeper bc she thinks im faking everything I have said. I have been crying for hours bc of her.

What makes it even worse is that she openly told me she would fake mental breakdowns, panic attacks, anxiety attacks, and even entire mental illnesses just so she could get out of lessons early or avoid things she didn’t want to do. She literally laughed about it, like it was some kind of game, while I was sitting there knowing how real and painful those experiences are for me and so many others. It’s absolutely disgusting and disrespectful to everyone who actually struggles with their mental health.

She’s even gone as far as faking ||trauma|| just to get sympathy from people. She makes up stories about things that never happened and exaggerates situations just so others will feel sorry for her. It’s beyond disgusting,

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Since yr 7

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For 3 years

queen pollen
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Sorry you've been through all that. But it sounds like you need to drop her as a friend. Yes it will be hard, but it will also be better for you.

viscid tartan
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I have dropped her loads of times but she lies and acts like the victim and we get forced to be friends again

queen pollen
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Okay. Tell me, has she ever faked self harming or suicidal thoughts?

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And was it recently?

viscid tartan
queen pollen
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Okay. Have you ever heard of Factitious disorder???

viscid tartan
queen pollen
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So, it's a serious mental health condition where people will do what your friend is doing. Faking self-harm, suicidal thoughts, playing the victim, making sure she's only 100% about herself. These are very very dangerous people and will only put you behind jail later on. You're more than welcome to DM me more.

But advice from me, I would drop her like a fly and make new friends

viscid tartan
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Yh I have other friends but I feel like I don’t deserve to be with them

viscid tartan
queen pollen
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You could always ask. And be 100% sure.

viscid tartan
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I might

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I also have had some rough things in the past that have been splitting all my friends away from me but I don’t really wanna say incase u hate me

queen pollen
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The best thing is to be direct, if you feel like you're being left out, you could always find new friends. And with the past, try to consider as to why it split them away from you and you don't have to tell me unless in DM's

Friends may come and go. But a true friend will stand by you 100% regardless.

viscid tartan
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Thx

queen pollen
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No problems :)