#TW:Abu$e and Vi0lenc3 AITA for refusing to help my ex who transitioned?

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round garden
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Earlier today my Ex's mom called my mom(I have their whole family blocked) and apparently my ex transitioned and wants support and I normally would be totally fine helping but this ex is a certified psychopath, like brutally offs animals for fun kinda psychopath. They also physically abu$ed me and gr@bbed me without my consent countless times. They also tried to off my BFF. They spent 7 mo in an asylum and continued their violent behavior after returning. I also have problems with their mom, their mom relentlessly cyber-bullied my BFF's mom. I do not want to interact with them in any capacity but I'm worried that my mom will pressure me to help them. I both feel bad for not helping them but also after all the crap they put me through I don't want to deal with them. My mom is pretty aware of my ex's behavior but she is not aware that they tried to off my BFF. I told my mom to tell their mom that if they want support they can contact Tiggers(Local trans help group) if they need support that bad. I need reassurance that I am doing the right thing and I also want to make sure there is a public record of this just in case.

fast cape
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If they really need help, then you are not required to help especially if they did that crap to you and others. ~ Aizawa

digital nebula
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your ex needs a psych ward