After giving myself a little time, I’m almost certain I’m genderfluid. I’m not worried about telling my parents, but I kind of am about my friends and my boyfriend. One of my newer friends used to bully me and exclude me and idk if he’d go back to that if I come out to him. Any advice? My boyfriend also doesn’t know English very well and I don’t want to confuse him by making him use different pronouns for me :(
#Coming Out Advice
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So that friend no longer excludes you so they've adapted to lgbtqia+ for your boyfriend I got no advice my bisexual ass has the everyone is taken problem so I've got no idea on that
Huh
Is that friend fine with LGBTQ people now or no
Not exactly sure
Ask them hopefully the answer is no to to not liking the LGBTQ community otherwise I'm stumped
What..
ASK THEM IF THEY ARE FINE WITH THIS Community
Why are you yelling??
Idk
Don't tell that shitty friend In my honest to god opinion.
Would probably not be friends with them to begin with.
I have a good friend that's accepting of me. So honestly for any other friends.
I would just kinda subtly ask them how they feel about people who are trans and the like.
Get their opinions, see if they'd be comfortable with you.
As for your boyfriend however. I can not give an affirmative answer as there is a language barrier.
Tbf you could just tell him you kinda feel like you want to be a guy sometimes.
But if he's not bi, you might be like my friend who suppresses those feelings of wanting to be a guy sometimes.
But these are just my thoughts.