Heartbroken, my partner kept all quiet and left me without knowing. Need serious help and can't calm | Pridecord | Page 1

glacial thicket Jul 7, 2025, 4:24 PM

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I got broken up today, because of "age gap", even tho I've told him/her 3 months ago abt my real age and that he/she should talk abt if anything was wrong - that was our deal in the relationship. But nonetheless, he/she kept quiet for 3 months straight, and I was wondering why his/her thoughts were getting worse and worse every single day and that he/she abused my emotions just to keep me "happy" and whatsoever.. Sigh, it was the worse mistake you could've done to anyone..

urban pier Jul 7, 2025, 4:33 PM

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What is the age gap?

glacial thicket Jul 7, 2025, 4:34 PM

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5 years

urban pier Jul 7, 2025, 4:34 PM

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And how old are you?

glacial thicket Jul 7, 2025, 4:34 PM

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getting 16 next month

urban pier Jul 7, 2025, 4:36 PM

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Oof, now I'm going to have to side with the other person here because while yes, I can understand that love can be very important to a person, however catching criminal charges may not be worth it for some

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If you do want to strike anything up again however, I do recommend you wait a while

glacial thicket Jul 7, 2025, 4:37 PM

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The worst part of this, he/she is in the server anyway, and called me out as a liar. Although the reality was, that it went way too fast, that I had to lie my age in the first place

urban pier Jul 7, 2025, 4:38 PM

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Wdym?

glacial thicket Jul 7, 2025, 4:40 PM

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I've met him/her in a game, and we even came together in the first place, because he/she had struggles with his/her ex. So, he/she decided to stay with me instead, and at first sight. I wanted to tell my real age, that I was 16, but the love was skyrocketing so fast, that I gave myself as 20 instead, because I got so scared and stressed at the same time.

urban pier Jul 7, 2025, 4:43 PM

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I can understand the reasoning behind this, as too having done so myself. But it would be best not to lie because that can cause a bigger problem later on, so while yes, it's ok to love someone, it's better to be honest with them, and while, it may feel bad, it would be lot better than a bigger problem later on

glacial thicket Jul 7, 2025, 4:46 PM

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I did say to him/her, with the help of my friend, that I was actually 16, and even assured him/her, that he/she can leave, if that doesn't fit with the age gap. But somehow he/she agreed to stay with me and begged me not to end this, or he/she would "oof"..
And then, we kept on going for 3 freaking months until today that he/she said, that he will end because of age gap.

#Heartbroken, my partner kept all quiet and left me without knowing. Need serious help and can't calm