#Am I fucked is my dad says being trans is a phase and my mom is crying and questioning

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mellow cosmos Jul 7, 2025, 12:55 PM

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2 years ago was the first time I’ve felt trans and recently I just came out. Outcome? My dad says to hide it and it’s a phase, my mom is crying and questioning everything. At least they support me but am I fucked?

hybrid prairie Jul 7, 2025, 5:08 PM

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You might be hopefully they learn to respect people's gender identity try and tell them it's your choice otherwise you're fucked

mellow cosmos Jul 7, 2025, 5:48 PM

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My parents said they aren’t ready do call me Samantha and my pronouns as they them but this was like 3 months ago but it may be different.

brittle stone Jul 7, 2025, 5:54 PM

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they’ll come around, though it might take a while. just take it slow and try to give them grace (ik it’s hard)

mellow cosmos Jul 7, 2025, 8:18 PM

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I have and they still use he him pronouns

brittle stone Jul 8, 2025, 5:23 AM

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i know how you feel, my parents don’t use my pronouns either. try to correct them sometimes.
but it’s fucking tiring to wait for them to come around 😭

mellow cosmos Jul 8, 2025, 1:45 PM

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Smart

mellow cosmos Jul 8, 2025, 6:06 PM

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Welp I tried and my mom hates me

warped cipher Jul 11, 2025, 2:02 AM

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she doesnt hate you

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she doesnt want to see you like this

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do you realize how bad

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this is

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repent

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ik for a fact your not a jesus lover

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get out this garbage and change

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dont be like this

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repent before its to late

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jesus doesnt want to see his children like this