#Idk

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worldly solstice
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I genuinely have no clue what I am since I’m pretty sure Im not aromantic but at the same time I don’t even know if what Im feeling is romance or just hyperfixation
I’ve always settled for demiromantic but it never felt “correct”

median bobcat
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maybe cupioromantic? would work if u like the idea of romance but dont want to participate in it

worldly solstice
median bobcat
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it could be that you just arent attracted to anyone at the moment

worldly solstice
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I like this one person but i dunno if its just a hyperfixation or a romantic thing 🫠

median bobcat
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Could you try to describe what you feel, what you think of, what you want from the person when ur around them? U can dm me if u dont want to talk abt it here

worldly solstice
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They just make me really happy

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Like moreso than other people I’ve been around

median bobcat
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If they would tell you that they like you what do u think would your reaction be? Would you try and enter a relationship

worldly solstice
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Probably

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Thats why i dont think im aro cuz i like romance and the idea of being in a romantic relationship(kinda) i just have 0 clue if im feeling romance or ifs its just platonic

median bobcat
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im pretty sure not knowing if what u feel is platonic or not doesnt have anything to do with your sexuality, you could just wait and see if u get stronger feelings towards this person
at some point it will be easier to categorize wether u like them as a friend or more
for example u usually wouldnt get butterflies around someone who is just a friend
having the desire to be closer to them can be platonic such as romantic