I came out to my mom and dad and it seemed like they were ok with it, at first. My mom is really supportive and always tells me that she and my father would love me no matter what, but whenever i chat with him it seems like he is trying his hardest to not offend me but also give his opinion stuff like "I dont get the lgbt shit" which i do explain it to him but he states his opinion and even though it's "good for them but not for me" I can hear something behind his voice telling me its more than something simple. Please help me 😦
#I am not sure if my father is completely okay with me being bisexual
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im not trying to make you feel uncomfortable when i say this but perhaps ask him to express his honest opinion of you being bisexual, and maybe go from there - i dont know 100% but that is my advice for you 🫶
"You're straight, and that's fine. I don't hate straight people for not being people I relate to, I hate the ones that show me they don't try to coexist with what they don't understand. I'd expect some level of mutual respect. If mutual respect sounds bad, you're not a good person."
If your dad wants you to conform to heteronormative things, mutual respect dictates you should find him a husband.
That advice both makes me feel better and laugh a little 😂