#Coming Out as a Demigirl

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dark vapor
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hey y'all!

so i've been thinking a lot lately about how i want to start coming out as a demigirl (i use she/they pronouns) -- but the thing is... i don't want to make a big, huge announcement abt it 😅

i'm not ashamed of who i am, in fact, i feel really seen and more like myself identifying this way. but i'm still SO nervous about sharing it widely.

part of me is debating with myself because... i feel like i dont have to come out as a demigirl bc i still feel comfortable with my assigned gender and don't mind being called a female, and it would make it easier for everyone else if i just don't. BUT... i REALLY feel like demigirl is the way i most identify because i feel like more than just a girl. i feel nonbinary as well. and i know in my heart that it's who i am.

i'm also a Christian, and while i personally believe God loves me exactly as i am (pansexual demigirl), i know not everyone in my circle sees it that way (except for my God sent Christian best friends <3). some people might not understand or accept my identity, so i want to be gentle and intentional about how i come out.

i'm just looking for advice from others who maybe relate. how did you come out in softer, more private ways?

thank y'all so much for reading. <3

livid python
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so, just a quick thing, does it ever say anything homophobic in the bible?

dark vapor
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there's just a lot of mistranslations

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nothing against different gender identities either. they weren't even a thing back during that time.

blazing swift
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maybe start wearing pronoun pins, specifically around people who wont try to change you or anything and will accept you once they understand. instead of coming up to people and forcing them to hear you, they can kinda come up to you on their own time once they're ready to accept you as you are