Help ig

[gusty lagoon]

Soo my homophobic brother found out through one of my friend that I have a crush on a girl (I'm pan female) and he keeps calling me a lesbian and my mum (she knows I'm pan but insists I'm bi) now knows I have a crush and she doesn't want me to date until college (UK college so 16 years old) and my brother says he's not gonna respect me as much now (not like he did anyways) so what do I do about my friend who outed me and the only one who knows my crush AND HES LITERALLY GAY TOO? LIKE GIRL? EXCUSE ME? So he basically outed me to my homophobic brother

Seriously what do I do about my friend?

[proper tulip]

You should definitely talk to him. If smt similar has happened before maybe it's time to find new friends but if this is his first strike maybeee after much talking you could let it slide but it's on you to decide. If this wasn't the first time I wouldn't keep that friend around for much longer but Idk your story so it's up to you

[gusty lagoon]

Ye I'm definitely not gonna be friends with him since it's not the first time he's done something like this