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balmy relic Jul 1, 2025, 8:58 PM

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i wanna run away from my abusive mother but all i have is someone next door in england willing to help

she hits me, threatens to kick me out, she threatens to fly me to poland to stick me in a mental hospital, she tells me im supposed to be strong and not such a loser, the internet is making me violent, taking my things 'because of me being grounded' even though i have seen her put up ads on facebook marketplace to sell them. but we arent broke not by a long shot

i have €59,10 saved in a cabinet that my mother hasnt found yet and i dont want her to find it to simply use it for herself. she takes my money always to 'keep it safe' yet pools it into her own activities with her boyfriend.

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i might be rambling about a big nothing burger

rigid plover Jul 1, 2025, 9:15 PM

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DUDE.

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RUN.

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GET HELP

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Research domestic abuse shelters in your area, tell police or just anybody you can

loud ether Jul 1, 2025, 9:16 PM

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ok, that is abuse. Do you have any devices or stuff to document stuff? And any people to stay with if you have to leave? Also, report this to child protective services.

balmy relic Jul 1, 2025, 9:39 PM

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Gather evidence, call cps and the cops, then run if they don’t do anything

deft venture Jul 1, 2025, 9:50 PM

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Yeah it is not ok for ur mom to be doing that

balmy relic Jul 1, 2025, 9:53 PM

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worst thing is shes been strategic about it
shes been hitting me when i had covered myself up

remote bridge Jul 1, 2025, 9:53 PM

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There’s nothing wrong with calling or texting one of the numbers in #🆘｜crisis-help-channels that’s what there for

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She can’t be doing that stuff man

balmy relic Jul 1, 2025, 9:54 PM

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remote bridge There’s nothing wrong with calling or texting one of the numbers in <#1176992653...

ive a feeling they wont believe it
theyll come and see a perfectly happy house and a loonatic teen

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thats what she does, when theres guests over its time to act like the perfect family

remote bridge Jul 1, 2025, 9:55 PM

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I’m pretty sure they know about kids doing that. Tbh if you feel like you could be in DANGER then call the police man

loud ether Jul 1, 2025, 9:56 PM

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thats why you should document it

remote bridge Jul 1, 2025, 9:56 PM

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loud ether thats why you should document it

Yeah

balmy relic Jul 1, 2025, 9:56 PM

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loud ether thats why you should document it

i havent thats the thing

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so if i start now it will look faked

remote bridge Jul 1, 2025, 9:58 PM

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balmy relic i havent thats the thing

Buy one of those security cameras that can record and replay what happened if you can’t then just try and use your phone

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Tbh ring works pretty well with that stuff, but I think you might need a subscription

remote bridge Jul 1, 2025, 10:01 PM

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rigid plover Research domestic abuse shelters in your area, tell police or just anybody you c...

Tbh this guy is right you need to get help from someone you 100% know you can trust like the police or cps

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I’m talking about doing that right now or soon

humble fog Jul 1, 2025, 10:04 PM

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audio recordings. set up any device where you can hide it well (or maybe even in plain sight) and record anything that happens

remote bridge Jul 1, 2025, 10:06 PM

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humble fog audio recordings. set up any device where you can hide it well (or maybe even in...

Yeah, gather evidence and send it to cps or the police what your mom is doing is not okay and I’m pretty sure it can be a crime in most places

balmy relic Jul 1, 2025, 10:07 PM

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i dont want my siblings to be split from family

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because if my mother gets arrested

remote bridge Jul 1, 2025, 10:07 PM

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balmy relic i dont want my siblings to be split from family

Oh, you have siblings that makes this way harder

balmy relic Jul 1, 2025, 10:07 PM

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then my sister goes to her dysfunctional father

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and my 7 month old brother gets stuck with a family he doesnt know

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i dont know anymore

remote bridge Jul 1, 2025, 10:11 PM

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With how you did explained it that sounds like your mother is doing child abuse. So, I’m just saying maybe it could possibly be better that way. Remember the final choice is up to you not up to me.

empty shoal Jul 1, 2025, 10:13 PM

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Run. If you needa talk, we’re all here.

loud ether Jul 1, 2025, 10:18 PM

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balmy relic i dont know anymore

im pretty sure you can request for them to be placed under temporary care

balmy relic Jul 1, 2025, 10:22 PM

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honestly i just want to leave without drama

loud ether Jul 1, 2025, 10:23 PM

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How old are you?

balmy relic Jul 1, 2025, 10:23 PM

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loud ether How old are you?

16

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i dont think i can pull through two more years of the same old while she turns and becomes really happy around my siblings

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i think im what needs to go cus i think i stress her

remote bridge Jul 1, 2025, 10:27 PM

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balmy relic i think im what needs to go cus i think i stress her

That sucks

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Have you tried talking to someone you can trust?

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Like a therapist or something (no I’m not saying you need a therapist it’s just a suggestion)

balmy relic Jul 1, 2025, 10:29 PM

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remote bridge Have you tried talking to someone you can trust?

i dont feel i can trust many people

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especially therapists

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those jackasses constantly screw me over

remote bridge Jul 1, 2025, 10:30 PM

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Who do you think you can trust?

balmy relic Jul 1, 2025, 10:32 PM

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remote bridge Who do you think you can trust?

theres a friend who lives close by who already knows of my situation

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my day one is in a different country so he cant help me

remote bridge Jul 1, 2025, 10:34 PM

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Try talking to the close by friend

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See if their parents can help or something

balmy relic Jul 1, 2025, 10:35 PM

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i simply want shelter from my own shelter

balmy relic Jul 1, 2025, 10:35 PM

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remote bridge See if their parents can help or something

i think his mom is cool with me coming over

remote bridge Jul 1, 2025, 10:37 PM

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What about talking to his mom about the situation

balmy relic Jul 1, 2025, 10:37 PM

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nope

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im not saying anything to his mom

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i dont want to be thrown out

remote bridge Jul 1, 2025, 10:38 PM

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With the situation your in I think she might understand

balmy relic Jul 1, 2025, 10:39 PM

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ive tried to talk about it to my day ones parents before when i was staying there and they said they dont want a squatter

remote bridge Jul 1, 2025, 10:39 PM

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A what?

balmy relic Jul 1, 2025, 10:39 PM

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like

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freeloader i think?

remote bridge Jul 1, 2025, 10:40 PM

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Tbh you don’t have a lot of options. One of the only good ones is to tell their parents…

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Do you think you can trust your friends parents?

balmy relic Jul 1, 2025, 10:41 PM

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remote bridge Do you think you can trust your friends parents?

they dont have my mothers phone number so i hope so

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