I mean... How long did it take you to come to terms with your sexuality? What helped you? Because I'm still not reconciled to the fact that I'm asexual and I don't know how to accept it.
#Your sexuality
native geode
this wont help much but one day i just kinda let go of all my notions about sexuality and decided i dont really care
that if i find it then i guess its there
well i never really had to come to terms with it seeing as its stayed the same
spark hawk
I understand that... But I found out when I was dating my ex... and then it was one of the reasons I broke up with him and I didn't even tell him...
native geode
you could tell him now
spark hawk
He doesn't want to talk to me anymore... And if I wrote this to him, he probably wouldn't want to talk to me even more...
native geode
also if you had other reasons to leave him behind i feel like that justifies it enough
dont blame yourself for that
ik its hard to "let go" of years of thinking but remember theres always people out there like you
youre not alone in feeling this way
spark hawk
💝 thank you... you're kind
spark hawk
thank you 💝
daring coyote
I honestly also think I'm somewhere on the asexual spectrum and have to admit I never struggled with that. I struggled the most with finding the "perfect" label to be validated. But no matter what label you take on, it doesn't change your sexuality or who you are. And being you is always valid.
There's nothing to feel guilty about being yourself. Yes, it might have ruined the relationship. But no matter the label, it wouldn't have ended good in the end. It's not your fault this relationship ended. Be proud of who you are. Because you deserve to be yourself /gen
spark hawk
Thanks, that's really kind of you! Okay, I will think about it more and I will try to be more proud of who myself 💝
jagged pagoda
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