I recently came out as lesbian, I trusted my dad so much. He said I didn't find the roght guy and that I was straight because I didn't kiss a girl to know. I never kissed a guy either, I'm sure that if I kiss a guy and say I'm lesbian he'll say I'm bi or straight. He is also very transphobic, especially nonbinaryphobic. I'm in doubt if I'm non-binary or just confused. Either way, I'm very disappointed on him. I thought I could trust him.
#My dad said I had to kiss someone to know if I'm a lesbian
severe wolf
cosmic wedge
What the actual fuck. You don't have to kiss anyone to feel attraction for anyone. That's simply gaslighting.
heavy fern
I mean this as respectfully (or disrespectfully as possible idk your father) as possible, your father is severely undereducated about the intricacies of human sexuality and I am so so sorry he said that to you. You know yourself better than anyone.
dire yoke
You don’t know how you feel by physical contact, but by how you feel inside. NEVER let anyone tell you how to feel or what to feel. you know how you feel more than anyone else, so stay strong, man. You got this.
prime grove
Damn
During pride month
Seriously dude, that sucks and I wish you the best! Only you know you
river arrow
can i have your dads number because he seems like a fire dude to invite to a barbecue.
daring cape
Nah dont kiss anyone u dont feel like kissing
If your belly and chest feel 🦋🦋🦋ish when u see someone you prob are attracted to them, next move? On you, u decide, feel the vibe, dont go kissing random dudes. ALSO sometimes parents will do that and disappoint you but they just are afraid(idk if its the case, but family is weird and they dont like changes especially on their babies…. He needs to realize that if hes afraid how must YOU be feeling? And sometimes it takes time… im sorry that i cant be more helpful but i hope you can get over this and that he forgives himself in the future, lots of love ❤️