i need help coming out to my sister as trans

[undone swan]

hi i am 13 year old boy that is going to be a female and i want to come out to my sister that i am trans and i ma scared to tell her becuase i dont know how she will react to it she is lesbian and i am trans and pans and i need help to come out

[crystal totem]

@undone swan maybe what you could do is ask her if yall can talk and just tell her how you feel about it and hopefully she’ll understand I believe in you 😁 you got this

[undone swan]

I am at my mom house and she at my dad's house

[crystal totem]

Do you know the next time that you see her or maybe you could call her

[undone swan]

Next weekend

[crystal totem]

Mk then that gives you some time to think about what you’re gonna tell her

[undone swan]

I already know what I am going to say

[crystal totem]

See that’s great

[undone swan]

yhea

[undone swan]

@crystal totem

[crystal totem]

Yes sorry I was eating

[undone swan]

Should I text her

[crystal totem]

If you would like I think it’s a good start

[undone swan]

Ok now what if she has questions

[crystal totem]

Depends on the questions

[undone swan]

ok

i want to come out this weekend

[crystal totem]

That’s great

[undone swan]

yhea um i think i want to text her but i also want to tell her

[crystal totem]

I get it and sorry I’ve been working 😅

[undone swan]

It fine but I am scared she will tell my dad and he will tell my mom

[crystal totem]

Ahh okay I get it that’s how my sister was when she told my mom and she my dad and they were pretty chill about.. how does your parents feel about your sister being a lesbian

[undone swan]

fine my mom is not homophobic @crystal totem

[crystal totem]

Okay then I think I’ll be all fine you got this!! @undone swan

[undone swan]

Ok thanks

[crystal totem]

Yup anytime!!

[undone swan]

So you think she is not transphobic

[crystal totem]

I have a good feeling she’s be fine with it!!

[undone swan]

Ok

So should I tell her that I want to be called ___

[crystal totem]

If that’s what you would to do yes

[undone swan]

Then she will ask why

[undone swan]

Hey should I paint the trans flag

[crystal totem]

Sorry I was working non stop and yes if you would like