How do I tell my friends and parents that I'm trans. I'm very scared to tell them so I need advice. TwT
#Coming out trans
rancid quarry
near whale
do you know if they're supportive? i have a similar problem, but i can try to help as much as i can :p
rancid quarry
Ya they have some people that are in the community but my parents idk plus I don't know how they would react to me being trans because they think I'm very straight
near whale
ok if they're supportive or know ppl in the lgbt community that's good, so i guess that could help if ur nervous.
if you have close friends that know or that you're not nervous to come out to you could ask them for advice or smth
also if you're really nervous and just cant for some reason you can like make a bracelet or smth with the trans flag and hope they notice??
idk thats what im trying to do rn :p
also it's still good to wait until you're ready if you can't yet.
rancid quarry
I have actually lol
near whale
thats all i can think of tbh sry
i have the same problem but with demigirl instead :p
near whale
I have actually lol
the making like a bracelet or smth?
rancid quarry
Ya
near whale
i cant make a bracelet but i still want smth before the pride parade.
which is tmrw.
it's 3am so technically today.
uhhhhh
welp
good luck with ur coming out once you do tho :3
near whale
imma change my pfp to fit my artstyle with demigirl instead of cisgender girl btw
rancid quarry
imma change my pfp to fit my artstyle with demigirl instead of cisgender girl bt...
Ooooo
near whale
if ur not too nervous ofc
rancid quarry
I'm am but I should do it soon
near whale
Ooooo
it is literally just changing the ear fluff but still ye
i might end up having to change the inner ear color i dont have a color picker
rancid quarry
K
near whale
but if you want to let other ppl know soon then maybe tell ur bestfriend first or whoever ur the most comfortable with and then once that's done then maybe it could help with coming out to other ppl
rancid quarry
Ya he is one of my best friends
near whale
so yeah i would say he could be one of the first ppl you come out to
if he's one of ur best friends tho, i still think it would be best to tell ur best friend first
rancid quarry
He's one out of two lol
I only have 2 best friends lol
Can't decide out of the 2 of them
near whale
are one of them in the lgbt community?
rancid quarry
No the one I'm with has a sister the other one has 2 moms
near whale
ok i would say the other one then cuz even if the one ur with has a trans sister or smth, i feel like having 2 moms would just make sense with being more supportive idk ¯_(ツ)_/¯
rancid quarry
Ya
near whale
still tho, wait until ur ready, even if you know how ur gonna do it and who ur gonna come out to first, you still need to be ready :3
near whale
np :3
im still too nervous and dont have a phone still despite my parents having every reason to get me one, so i kinda have to wait for my best friend or bf to visit or make plans with me or for me to actually be free to walk to his house :p
good luck again tho :3
rancid quarry
Byee
near whale
bye :3