(TW: mentions of bodily fluids) ||I'm so fucking done with living at my mothers's. Especially since I live in her fucking garage. I saw a fucking mouse try to go for my backpack (I don't have food out here) and I'm prolly gonna get blamed for it as if I don't live in an uninsulated, messy garage full of her shit and my baby brother's toys. She doesn't fucking communicate with me about anything when I try to, is gone almost all the fucking time without saying where she's going or how long she's gonna be gone or it's something last minute, barely cooks meals, complains about the house being a mess but doesn't enforce the daily chores she says she has, tells me that I'm not my sisters' parent and yet it's (unspokenly) been decided that I'm in charge of the girls when she's not here. She also stays up late on the phone with her ex talking about why their relationship failed (because they're both narcissistic assholes) and invites him over to hang out, made me paranoid about being pregnant, got me shit pregnancy tests, tried to blame them not working on me, then proceeded to do the other test for me (I pissed in a cup to do one of the fuckin piss stick ones) while her ex (who she knows makes me uncomfortable) was there. She's also screamed at me and my sisters over the house being dirty multiple times and screamed at me for trying to talk in a tone that wouldn't piss her off because if I talked in a higher volume voice, I'd just get yelled at for yelling. The only thing that I was told I can do is call CPS if I don't feel safe but CPS won't do shit so I'm spilling it all here to whoever bothers to read this.||
#My Mother's House
wind zephyr
She also says she supports me being trans but her actions say otherwise and it pisses me off that she treats me like a girl instead of a boy
devout basalt
Get evidence
Yes. Get as much footage as you can, if you can. Then cps will mostly likely do something. It might not be great, but it’d probably be better than the shithole it sounds like your from
wind zephyr
I've tried. Hell, I had my schools report it for me because it used to be worse but even then CPS didnt do anything
radiant chasm
What???
sacred blaze
(TW: mentions of bodily fluids) ||I'm so fucking done with living at my mothers'...
If you need help gather all the evidence you can then get the authorities involved. Without evidence they won’t do anything, but if there is evidence they will do something, and she is not giving you any sense of emotional support. And as the parent, your mother should be taking care of you and your siblings. And if her ex tries to touch you or do anything inappropriate call the cops and tell them he was trying to SA you.
radiant chasm
They are stupid
wild tundra
I agree with everyone else here evidence is key if there not doing anything thats just unreasonable i may not be much help here but this is all i can say is i highly suggest to keep collecting evidence more and more will strengthen your case (P.S i dont know if im making sense here)
candid granite
yeah, also agree with everyone here, evidence is great. make sure to get more than just one video or picture or smth, because she could say it was fake or made with AI or smth, so get as much evidence as you can. for now, try to get some things to make taking care of your siblings more fun, or at least just less overbearing. maybe make up a game or something, try to teach them some fun stuff, idk how easy it is or if it would help, but it's an idea.
sacred blaze
oh and if anything happens make sure you have a diary full of all the things that happen, and be sure to add pictures that correspond with the things on that page
wind zephyr
Alright, I will