#Should I tell my parents I’m bisexual?

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ocean geyser
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I always wanted to come out to my parents but there homophobic and I don’t know if they will take it lightly and I need suggestions on what should I do like should I give hints and stuff like I’m scared I already told my sister and friends they understand but I’m just scared there gonna lash out on me-

static needle
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Take my advice, if you dare:
One way or another, they're going to find out. Imo, I think its best to tell them yourself. You don't have to make a big deal out of it or anything, just casually tell them. They're your parents, so you shouldn't be worried about them "lashing out" on you.
Another thing you could do is talk to your sister, so you wouldn't have to tell your parents alone. If your sister is there, supportive by your side, your parents will understand more.
(My advice might be shit but this is what I would do)

torn ledge
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If you feel safe to, do it, if you don't feel safe, don't come out

ocean geyser
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And it makes me uncomfortable

torn ledge
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Are any of your friends LGBTQ+?

ocean geyser
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Yeah actually

torn ledge
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I cannot help you come out, however you can mention your friends and say how you are uncomfortable when they talk bad about the community

ocean geyser
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Okay thanks!!:)

torn ledge
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Np 🙂

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Bc saying your friends are LGBTQ+ is a whole lot safer than you coming out

ocean geyser
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yeah your right