#I need help coming out
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Oh babe. First this is for your saftey, i want you to casually bring up things like "I heard about this insert trans topic happening in insert another country" This way you can understand a few of your parents veiwpoints on the topic to give you warning if it isn't safe to do so. I want you to check this before doing anything else okay. I know people who saying this has saved them before okay. I don't want to scare you, but I want you to be safe.
Yes, make sure they are not transphobic before because if yes they can and might kick you out of dissaprove of you. Which we dont want,
yeah, it's quite important to know your parents impressions on these topics. if you feel safe about coming out, i'd suggest picking a method (i came out via text because i don't live with my parents and felt more comfortable with this over a phone call) and working on what you'll say. maybe explaining what this means to you (like if you will want hormones , transition socially, change name/pronouns etc), how you feel and remind them you're still the same person after all.
ok i will try
Best of luck jj