history regarding my parents

[spring arch]

also its late and ima check on this post in the morning ok bye

[wicked oracle]

I wouldn’t worry about your grandpa being trans-/homophobic he’s from another generation, my grandma often says the n-word, but when your mom is the same that’s another thing, maybe you can give some more context about that situation.

[burnt pawn]

+1 to the “another generation” part. Unfortunately for a lot of people those were the beliefs most people had during their time.

Also, I used to be homophobic and transphobic too. The important part is that you learned that those beliefs are incorrect (and changed your mindset) :)

[spring arch]

i know but still

and also for my mom its just that in completely random moments during conversation starts talking about LGBTQ+ people in not really the best way

i mean like she dosent hate them but she dosent really support them either

[spring arch]

yeahh but i dont think they would feel great if this was happening to their child