Help how do I tell my mom I'm gay and I feel more comfy being called carson?

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So my mom is quite supportive but I'm scared to come out:( she already knows I'm trans but I jst don't know how to come out and I'm scared she won't support me:(((

[slow coyote]

Honestly if she’s supporting I think that you just need to rip the bandaid off and just say “hey, can you call me Carson?” If there is no other people that make you feel unsafe to come out that Is

[marble flame]

hey
i get that
even if someone seems supportive, coming out is still scary
it’s ur heart, ur identity, ur safety
& that fear is real no matter how "okay" they’ve been before
just bc she knows ur trans doesn’t mean this part isn’t hard too
coming out isn’t a one-time thing
it’s layered
& it’s okay to take ur time
you don’t owe anyone a perfect way to say it
you can write it
text it
say it in a whisper
whatever feels safest for u
& if ur scared, that doesn’t mean u aren’t brave
you’re so brave just for feeling this & still wanting to be honest
i’m proud of u
no matter how or when u come out, ur identity is valid
& there’s nothing wrong w/ needing time
i’m here for u 🖤

[strong lance]

My mom said she doesnt care and shes still gonna call me my dead name

[marble flame]

so does she support u or?

[strong lance]

No:(

[marble flame]

oh no im so sorry

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It's fine

[marble flame]

u need a hug (pretend im with u and i am hugging u)

[strong lance]

Ty:)