Guys, is it wrong if someone who's an adult and someone who's almost one (they don't have a big age-gap) start making freaky jokes in a gc with me even though I'm 15?? I told them I was uncomfortable with it before, because I also felt excluded and weird, they stopped. However, today they said it wasn't that deep because they're jokes, and that I couldn't complain because I did the same thing with my bf when I was 14 due to my hypersexuality affecting me. I struggle to control the urge to stop joking around... Besides, my bf took advantage of my hypersexuality to send +18 pics without me consenting to them and kept trying to get extremely explicit with me. I broke up with him a few months ago, and I realized this recently after thinking about it deeply.
#Tw: SA and hypersexuality mentions
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It is wrong for them to do that, to be fair it depends on what the jokes are like (but based off what you’ve said their the kind that doesn’t belong in a gc with minors) but if they want to be really freaky to one another they can do it privately. (Do they know you’re 15? If so then they def should not be making those jokes repeatedly) also you expressed your discomfort and they and they proceed to bring up a really dark time in your life (I’m sorry you had to go through all that, it was very brave of you to leave him) which is a very petty thing to do. Honestly they don’t seem good people, and if they aren’t listening to you then it might be best for you to leave the gc (it’s completely up to you)