I need help

[thorny nacelle]

I don’t know what i am

[brazen vale]

can you elaborate?

take your time

[thorny nacelle]

Like

I’m Lesbian

But I’m attracted to men at like a base level

I just like Women a lot more than men

[brazen vale]

have you considered bisexuality

[heady moss]

Do you like both men and women the same way? Are you sexually attracted to both? Are you romantically (would want to date) attracted to both?

I am primarily attracted to women, but very very picky about which men I'm attracted to. They're few and far between, and out of the few I'm sexually attracted to there are even fewer that I'm romantically attracted to.

[sacred oak]

Also, sexual orientation is a spectrum

These labels are not concrete/definitive.

There is no right or wrong way to label yourself

[thorny nacelle]

I have considered FEB fem

[thorny nacelle]

I mean, the only aspect i like about men is nsfw

Other than that i like Women

[thorny nacelle]

Eh idk

[sacred oak]

you should label yourself in whatever way makes you feel the most comfortable

[sacred oak]

but do you also like women in that way as well?

[thorny nacelle]

Yeah, just a lot lot more

Like Romantical and emotional connection

Men are just kinda… eh

[sacred oak]

but based on what you are saying, you like men sexually?

[thorny nacelle]

Barely

[sacred oak]

what about women?

[thorny nacelle]

And only really one aspect of them

[thorny nacelle]

A lot more, like i said before

[sacred oak]

ok

so you could label yourself as bisexual with preference for female, and homoromantic

[thorny nacelle]

Homoromantic?

[sacred oak]

means romantically attracted to the same gender

[thorny nacelle]

But I’m attracted to Women in all aspects

Men are just sexually interesting

And that’s barely anything

[sacred oak]

romantic and sexual attraction can be completely separate

so you can be sexually interested in both genders but only like same gender romantically

[heady moss]

Bless you for knowing that already. You're most of the way there!

[thorny nacelle]

Huh

[heady moss]

But yeah, the rest just depends on your own sex life and relationships. Don't be afraid to use whatever label you feel appropriate, and change it when you want. Labels are there to help, not hold you back.

[sacred oak]

You also don't have to label yourself if you don't want to or aren't ready to

[thorny nacelle]

I mean

I’m between Female Exclusive Bisexual Female and Lesbian

[sacred oak]

You can have different sexual and romantic orientations

Which is how I am

I don't have really much sexual attraction/desires, so I consider myself asexual, but romantically, I like men (homoromantic). But just to keep things simple, I usually just label myself as gay.

[lament dew]

Could potensially be pan/bisexual and homoromantic. (sexually attracted to multiple genders, only romantically attracted to same gender)