#Straight guy struggles

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eternal parrot
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It may feel like I'm trying to gain sympathy. But being a straight guy is hard sometimes. I'm being constantly flirted and hit on by girls. I'm very introverted but I'm also talkative so it's hard. And online, most of the vids I've seen are just slandering and insulting straight guys calling us evil. But I've seen a lot of fathers and everyone around me. And they've never once raised their hand on their wives, they do work around the house. But online, these influencers have started spreading hate against us un the name of feminism and LGBT support. So I just felt like venting it here. It just really makes me scared to marry. Because I was with a girl who used and ditched me. And she's nice to her gay friends but always acts flirty around straight guys. And she talks about how guys use girls while she's doing that to guys herself. I'm not against social media creators. I'm just against this generalization that all people are bad. I'm also against misogynist influencers too. People think I'm like this because I've only been around good people. But I've been around people who completely destroyed my mental state and well being, been used and ditched by everyone. Yet I blame myself and move on. People say I'm strong because of that. But for once, I want a wife who doesn't become another challenge and stays like I have for everyone. I've also seen my own ex guy friends who have ditched their girlfriends. Then they spread rumours that I'm dating that girl while I literally treat those girls like sisters. I hate those people too.

robust wharf
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And you came to an LGBTQ server for this… why? To tell us that we “hate on straights” or to get validation in the “fact” that we do?

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Like I know you’re rage baiting but it’s so hard not to correct you and say that the very very very few people who go out and hate on straights are not the majority, just the loudest amongst their groups

robust wharf
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I feel like it’s the latter tho ngl, and if it is I hope you see that we don’t all suck and it’s, again, a very few and far between group of people who do that

severe onyx
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It is like Hattie says, most people don’t hate on straight guys. But do you wanna know some real staight guy struggles?

Seeing a young girl in some sort of trouble. It’s like ”do I help her because she will apprichiate it or do I stay away because I don’t want people around me to think I’m going to kidnap her”

sudden kayak