peak saffron
maybe slowly and distantly exposing both some parts of the lgbt community and your more femmenine side to them could help
im not talking about coming out but it could be as simple as reccomending shows or films to them which have a queer character in (depending on the film this could backfire)
changing name and pronouns in your situation is risky, maybye starting with changes to hair and slight fashion changes could be a start
if they do become accustomed to having more awareness of queer folks being normal and you appearing slightly more femmenine then maybye after some time you could g a slight step forward
you deserve better and you dererve the feeling of safety and security
but im afraid im not sure on what else can be done outside of escaping your family and home
peak saffron
Having at least one parent that isn't understanding but still supportive is definitely a big step up
I'm not sure what can be done about your father
If worst gets to worst your age might save you from homelessness
It might be different over there tho from my experience they didn't want a recent 16 year old on the streets but the support might be different there