how do i tell my parents that am gay it’s so hard to they don’t really like gays and i am and i hate it so much for so many reasons
#gay
sacred jewel
nova reef
Depends on how homophobic they are. Do they not get it or do they deliberately hate them?
slate jetty
First things first, your own safety and wellbeing should be your top priority when coming out to anyone. If they seem homophobic, and you have good reason to believe that they might disown you if you come out to them, then you are should probably stay in the closet, at least for now. Some other factors to consider is if your area tends to be friendly or hostile towards LGBTQ+, how dependent you are on your parents, and if there is anyone else in your family that you can gaurantee will support you if your parents were to disown you.
I know it can be very stressful to be in the closet, but your safety and wellbeing are more important than anything else.
sacred jewel
Depends on how homophobic they are. Do they not get it or do they deliberately h...
kind of like not get them but don’t like them a lot because they “influence other kids”
nova reef
kind of like not get them but don’t like them a lot because they “influence othe...
Yeah, I wouldn't recommend coming out to them. It would make your mental health worse
slate jetty
Always prioritize your safety and wellbeing and don't come out to anyone who doesn't seem to be accepting