#How should I come out to my trans-phobic mom?

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dense marsh
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I'm genderfluid and the ging is my mom is trans-phobic but not homo-phobic so she knows about my sexual identity any one have ideas?

steel steeple
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Hey there! How ya doin'?

dense marsh
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Good ig

steel steeple
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I'm guessing your thoughts are doing you much justice today?

dense marsh
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Yeah

steel steeple
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I feel ya, and i understand entirely. My thoughts are the same way.

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But let's get this train rolling.

dense marsh
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At least I finally found someone who understands meeee

steel steeple
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oh trust me we're EVERYWHERE-

dense marsh
dense marsh
steel steeple
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Oh poland- i can't actually say we're EVERYWHERE then cause i don't know how people are in polamd.

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But okay, you wanna come out to your Trans-Phob mom..

dense marsh
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Yeah like most of ppl in Poland are homo-phobic and trans-phobic oh and there was a presidential candidate who damaged an LGBT gallery...

dense marsh
steel steeple
dense marsh
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Ik ik

steel steeple
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OKAY back on topic.

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so let's start from the top.

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How long have you identified as trans? You don't have to answer any of my questions if they're uncomfortable

dense marsh
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Uhhh about 7 months

steel steeple
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hm, that's not that long. So you might be able to ease that with your mom.

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but not all parents are the same, so it might not work.

dense marsh
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Okayyy

steel steeple
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Your mom knows your sexuality so that's a good start.

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does she support?

dense marsh
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Yeah

steel steeple
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okay that's REALLY good.

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have you had any ideas or attempts at coming out to her?

dense marsh
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Not really

steel steeple
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no ideas either?

dense marsh
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No

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😦

steel steeple
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you know what, that's okay. it's why i'm here right now

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i'm gonna help you out

dense marsh
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Yayyyy thxxxx

steel steeple
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so how did you originally come out to your mom? Was it like a conversation? Or flat out and blunt-

dense marsh
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I was like "mom I need to tell you something" and firstly I asked her does she support and then I told her like "mom, I'm Pansexual" and she just hugged me and said that she support me

steel steeple
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okay wow, that's a great way to go.

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Asking a pre question to gain a little intel before you push foward.

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Smart.

dense marsh
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Yeahhhh like my friend who came out(idk did I wrote this right) she suggested this so I used it

steel steeple
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you wrote it right, and your friend was really looking out for you there!

dense marsh
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Yayyyyyyyyyy

steel steeple
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as for ideas on coming out.

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i have 2 for right now.

dense marsh
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Plssss tell themmmmm

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I plan to come-out in July

steel steeple
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Well don't do it 4th of July.

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that'll be a disaster

dense marsh
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What is on 4tg of July?

steel steeple
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RIGHT YOU'RE NOT AMERICAN LIKE ME-

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MY BAD.

dense marsh
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But what is on?

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I'm curious

steel steeple
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I think it's independence day- i don't really remember or care that much because amercia is HORRIBLE rn.

dense marsh
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Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh

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I'm sooo sorry but I gotta go I'll be back in 2,5 h I have training soryyyyyy cya!

steel steeple
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Hey i'll be here-!

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we can finish this later, just stay safe and have a good day

dense marsh
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Thx

dense marsh
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Okay im nack

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Back

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Sorry that it took so longg

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Also rn I'm with my mom