I feel like sometimes if people do something that is a little weird (like sensory stuff for example) its just something out of their control, but if i do the same thing its considered weird
like one of my friends has this sensory thing where suddenly she gets random ticks and stuff - which are out of her control - and recently i've been having the same thing, but when she saw me do one time she said it was weird and asked why i did it, like its the same thing you do???
its not just that as well but sometimes my friends make a slip up - everybody does, its normal - but i feel like when i make a slip up i have to constantly apologise for making a mistake, like i have to be perfect 24/7 and i have to support everyone and give good advice and be the 'perfect' friend' and im just fed up?
What should i do?
also sorry if this makes no sense cause i kinda started ranting so if your confused feel free to ask clarifying questions and stuff xx
#What do i do?
woven lily
reef wadi
i can clarify if needed.
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Oksy
reef wadi
Off of what i read, Aries here is a sponge.
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Huh
reef wadi
They take in and absorb their surroundings and act on them.
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Ohhh
reef wadi
so the ticks? Might've just been impulse to Aries.
While their friend, they literally can't control them.
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Ohhh
I asked goblin.tools too:)
This is a person sharing their feelings about how they are treated differently from others when they do certain things. They mention having some behaviors, like sensory responses or ticks, that happen spontaneously and are out of their control. Their friend has similar behaviors, but when they see the person do the same thing, they consider it weird. This makes the person feel confused and upset because it seems unfair.
They also talk about making mistakes or slipping up. Everyone makes mistakes, but they feel like they have to apologize all the time and can't be imperfect. They feel pressured to always be perfect, support everyone, and give good advice, which can be exhausting.
They're asking for advice on what to do and mention this is a kind of rant or expressing feelings, so they might be feeling overwhelmed or misunderstood. They also show openness to explaining more if needed.
Imagine you have a friend who sometimes taps their foot rapidly when they’re anxious. If they do it, people might understand it as a nervous habit and not think much of it. But if you start tapping your foot at the same time, some might see it as weird or inappropriate. You both have the same habit, but others view your actions differently based on who you are.
That is what goblin tools saidys
reef wadi
i- alright-
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IDK
reef wadi
i'm not even mad about it-
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what?
reef wadi
i'm not even mad at the answer-
reef wadi
honesty i dunno, it's just something i say.