#Told my bf I'm trans

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steel mountain
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I had Trouble getting to talk to him about it because we're both very nonserious people. When i asked how he felt about trans people he said that he was religious and that made me question if i should still come out to him. Then he said "if you were trans i wouldnt think anything bad or hate you for it" i came out to him that day. I felt so relieved. But now he hasn't texted or called me at all which is weird because we text and call each other everyday. I feel nervous I scared him off by coming out to him (we are long distance)

sand flower
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Have you tried to reach him at all? If not, then try reaching out. If he doesn't respond, then he might just need some time to process it. This is something that would be difficult to process for most people in romantic relationships (even long distance ones). And if he genuinely likes you, then he will come back for you at some point, but it might take him time. Also, how long has it been since you came out to him? If it's only been a couple of days, then I'd say give him some more time (at least a week or so) before trying to reach out to him again

stark slate