So let me start by saying- I love my mom. So damn much but she has made it clear SHE DOES NOT LIKE OUR PEOPLE. She makes snarky jokes and honestly- I need help because I asked her ‘hypothetically what would you do if I was bisexual?’ And she said she’d disown me. So. Fun. We’re also Indian which means ME EXPRESSING MY SEXUALITY IN ANY FORM WOULD BE A SCANDAL KIND OF THING 😭
Help please my darlings
#Coming out to homophobic mom
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old mauve
So let me start by saying- I love my mom. So damn much but she has made it clear...
As another Indian with a homophobic family, I'd suggest not coming out if you're not gonna be safe afterwards. She doesn't need to know your sexuality, esp if she's not going to have a good reaction to it.
If you do really want to tell her though, make sure you have a backup plan (money, resources, somewhere to crash at etc.) in case worse comes to worst.
rancid apex
When coming out, safety should ALWAYS be your top priority. If you think your mom is homophobic and that she would disown you for being bi, then it is best that you NOT come out to her. At the very least, wait until you are not dependent on her anymore, then you might be able to tell her, but always consider your own personal safety and well being if you decide to do that.
pliant star
ahh thank you so much my darlings- i think she was joking when she said she'd disown me but- you can never be too careful 💕⭐✨