Hello I don’t I what to do

[flat oyster]

So I found out I was gay when I went to 3rd grade, I was always feminine and never was friends with the boys and I kept it a secret from my mom and dad cause I was scared and had a crush on this guy but not for long, after that most of my friends left the school and I had to make more friends in 4ths me I did I make a lot so in 5th I had a lot of friends and in 6th and I had this TikTok account and I posted about my sexuality a lot and my mom went through my phone but didn’t find the stuff but said that me having the gay flag in my camera roll was wrong and I got my phone back and yeah and I was scared cause I almost got caught multiple times and my mom said being gay was wrong, I wasn’t scared of my mom I was scared of my dad cause he would scream and yell a lot and he was very homophobic, my mom found my TikTok account when I was at a cross country race and we had a long talk, my mom said that she thinks I am to young to know my sexuality and that when I am older that I might change so I should not put it out there that I am gay, she said if I really am gay she will still love and support me, but I also have to tell my dad if I find out I am, I found out I really am gay and I haven’t told my mom cause I don’t want her to tell my dad and then I will get kicked out at 13!, I am scared please help me

[mint flame]

Why not ask her not to tell him?

[wind linden]

Ok if you want to be gay that is your choice dont let your parents choose for you I am also gay and I agree with you telling your parents straight up is hard to do give it time and wait until you have a house so if they kick you out you have a place to stay so you dont end up on the street.

[flat oyster]

Thank you for the advice and I think I will wait till I am 16 and have enough money and a job then I will run away with a friend or live with them,