my friends mental health seems to be improving but that makes mine worse. ever since they seemed to start getting better they seemed to stop caring. not take my vents seriously, not talking to me as much, theyve said that im making their deppression worse so idk what to do.
#why me
stray herald
quiet ocean
I would try and figure out what the problem is. They may just have mixed feelings.
stray herald
im the problem i think
snow elbow
my friends mental health seems to be improving but that makes mine worse. ever s...
Id say talk to them honestly if you feel like there still a connection worth saving. But if they keep making you feel like a burden, its okay to step back ,you did your part, now its time to protect your own mental peace
What they did to u is infair, personally i believe a friendship should go both ways
stray herald
ill try to talk to them but they dont really listen sometimes
snow elbow
ill try to talk to them but they dont really listen sometimes
Its always worth to try and say what u need to say, if they dont listen that says more about them than it does about u
address the problem in a quiet, respectful way
stray herald
ok tysm for the advice
stray herald
i talked to them. they decided to leave the convo in the middle of it and idk what to do they said the reason they were not talking to me was bc they were not talking to anyone exept for their partner. in the middle ill give context rq i had a really hard time starting convosations and communitation in general. i had told them this before but they brought it up again that i used to not start convos and after that they went offline. idk if theres a connection worth saving.
i dont want to lose them but i am.
snow elbow
i talked to them. they decided to leave the convo in the middle of it and idk wh...
Im sorry for that, he left even when u had the courage to discuss with them, leaving u carrying all the weight, theyre minimizing everything uve worked through
I understand you dont want to lose them, that shows u have a nice heart. But ask yourself this, are they even trying to stay? Because if youre the only one fighting for the friendship thats not a connection anymore. Its js you holding on to someone whos already gone
Letting go doesnt always mean you didnt love them. It means youre finally choosing to love yourself too
Also the way that you still tried to reach out to them even after struggling with communication Thats strength, it takes courage to do that, dont let their silence break u, u def stronger than that
stray herald
i think ill let go of them. i feel bat yes but i think its for the best.
snow elbow
i think ill let go of them. i feel bat yes but i think its for the best.
Yeah, its okay to let people go, even if it hurts, you deserve someone who actually cares and listens js like u did with them
@stray herald anyways i forgot to say this but if u ever need help u can always dm me and i could try and help
Up to u