#Am i in the wrong

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queen lintel
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am i in the wrong fir helping my friend’s kid on finding their thing with helping other… back round i am a father to 5 kids my friend is a mother to 6 kids and one of her kids is older then me and i do tend to talk to him more then other kids ( i do talk to the other kids both mine and her kids) and i was renting to him and he just thx me fir helping him to not do suicidal thing anymore and now my friend is mad that I accidentally helped him

craggy monolith
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But why would your friend be mad?

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She should be happy

elfin vessel
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Ya she should be happy

frank linden
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No your absolutely in the right! wtf?

pastel pier
queen lintel
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she does get jealous really easily but this thig has gotten to far to where i stop speaking to that family

frank linden
queen lintel
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yea but it’s fine

frank linden
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I would maybe suggest to occasionally keep in touch with the son if they were suicidal in the past though

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Just want to keep people safe ❤️

queen lintel
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yeah my son is like him ( this son is newly adopted from a not so good family)

high glade
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If they get jealous that you're better at talking to them in a way that makes them feel safe and valued... It should be their goal to learn how to communicate with them better. That's more insecure than using password as a password. canny

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Wanting a kid's happiness and sense of security to come exclusively from the parent is one of those things that really makes me ask whether someone is a parent... or if it's just by that "weak, biological definition".

queen lintel
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yea

queen lintel
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update this kid imma call BE and his mom or used to be mom imma call RA
So BE eligibility did something that RA didn’t like and disown him so idk what to do i will adopt him but that’s if he wants to be adopted

frank linden