Idk how to come out

[rotund tundra]

I present myself as a masculine guy and like super super republican sort of vibe so people don’t know and idk how to say I’m gay without people thinking super different of me

[twilit reef]

What i would do, is come out with a partner. Because then people can see you with said person and can accept it better. Then you wont get the 'its just a phase' assumption so easily.

[rotund tundra]

They think my boyfriend is my buddy so idk if that will work cause they think something is up with him but not me

[fervent gazelle]

I say come out to Someone like a best freind or sibling someone's as important as them and test it on them

But ultimately you have different parents/experiences which mean we probably can't tell you how to come out just help

[stuck beacon]

I second this. I came out to my best friend and my sister months before telling my parents. But I'm also in a much different situation since I live in a very liberal area and have family and friends who have similar views to me on many things.

[rotund tundra]

I came out to my friends today

[stuck beacon]

How did it go?

[rotund tundra]

They laughed and said they already knew my boyfriend wasn’t my buddy and said they didn’t care what I was but they do find it strange and I accept that

[stuck beacon]

that's good to hear