I recently lost all my friends due to them finding out I was a trans guy meaning I'm a girl and they unfriended me due to me "dressing girly" when I always wear baggy to the bests of my ability and I've told them it's bc my step mom doesn't accept that but they still did it. Also I don't know how to tell my step mom because she's huge on "girls be girly" but I dont wanna/feel like a girl. I always cut my hair and I get grounded for it when it's expression. Please help me explain.
#I need help making friends and coming out..
thorny nexus
sonic tree
Hey, sounds like ur parent is transphobic. But like all this server isnt!
I can help whenever, js dm me
exotic cipher
I recently lost all my friends due to them finding out I was a trans guy meaning...
Your "friends" are complete assholes. If you know who you are and you are proud of that fact, don't let your parents change you. You're beautiful the way you are and I don't give a crap what others think. You deserve accepting friends and family. The best way to explain it to them is probably to just tell they you are what you are and they should either accept it or go to hell.
(DM's are available though it might take a bit for a response)
cursive drift
I recently lost all my friends due to them finding out I was a trans guy meaning...
Maybe tell her that I am who I am
midnight owl
I recently lost all my friends due to them finding out I was a trans guy meaning...
Has your stepmother expressed any views on LGBTQ+ related topics? If not, then you could try to start a conversation about it, and depending on how she responds, you might be able to tell her who you are.
Like if she shows any hints of opposition to LGBTQ+, then you are probably best not telling her. If there are any other family members or other close adults in your life who may seem more supportive (i.e. school teachers or administrators), you might be able to tell them