#Pls help :C

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icy sequoia
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im going through dysphoria and dysmorphia..im really starting to hate my body...and i wanna kms, idk how to handle this..and to worsen the situation slightly..my parents (mainly my dad, who im with rn) are transphobic so i cant talk to them.. :C

marsh yarrow
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I can't talk rn but I will talk to you later ok?

icy sequoia
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Mmhm!

pliant pumice
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Im an ally.

icy sequoia
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Ok

pliant pumice
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Why are you starting to hate your body?

icy sequoia
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i just dont like being an afab, it doesnt feel right..and i dont want to be like this...too many problems-

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:(

pliant pumice
icy sequoia
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Assigned female at birth

pliant pumice
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That's perfectly fine if you don't feel like you are a woman.

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I always want you to put this in perspective. The fetus starts off as a girl. When it changes to a boy/or stays as a girl, the body may have changed but not the brain.

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Or the brain may have changed

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There is nothing wrong with how you are feeling.

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It is completely valid

icy sequoia
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okay -

pliant pumice
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I would ask your parents if you could have therapy or something

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I can't really do much but talk to you in Discord. I think something face to face would work best

icy sequoia
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ouh, okki

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mk!

pliant pumice
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But yeah! I wish you the best of luck! Make sure to Hydrate and drink tons of water.

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Eat good.

icy sequoia
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Ty ^^

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ill try

pliant pumice
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And distract yourself from the suicidal thought.

icy sequoia
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oki :3

pliant pumice
# icy sequoia oki :3

I would recommend having like a hair tie and snapping it on your wrist to get you in that present moment

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(It causes no internal harm if done regulary*

icy sequoia
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Alright

marsh yarrow
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Also dragging ice across the part u usually do it on

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That works and if u need to see red put some food dye on it

pliant pumice
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That's what I do.

icy sequoia
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Ok!-

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Ill try that ^^