#Why....

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summer sphinx
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WHY
WHY CAN'T I BE FUCKING HELPFUL FOR ONCE
I CAN'T EVEN HELP MY BOYFRIEND
WHY AM I SO FUCKING USELESS
I'M SUPPOSED TO HELP PEOPLE BUT I FUCKING CAN'T ANYMORE
WHY CAN'T I HELP ANYMORE
I used to be so helpful.....

summer sphinx
# jaunty dust What happened r u okay??

No
My boyfriend was going through something (private reasons so I won't say) and I couldn't figure out a way to help them
I haven't been able to help anyone and normally everyone comes to me for advice or mental help which normally I am ok at I'm not a licensed therapist but they say it helps but the past few months I've been useless, I haven't been able to help anyone, not me not my boyfriend, not anyone and I feel so useless without helping someone

jaunty dust
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That’s enough help as is

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And your not useless just because you can’t solve everyone’s problems

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No human can. Don’t hold yourself to super high standards

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It’s fine to not be able to do something you’ve been doing for a long time too

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That’s just called burning out

summer sphinx
tawdry cedar
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I promise it’s not your fault, it’s just the fact that you’re stressed from what you’re seeing people go through, I’m sure. I have been there, believe me.