#Why....
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Dude
What happened r u okay??
No
My boyfriend was going through something (private reasons so I won't say) and I couldn't figure out a way to help them
I haven't been able to help anyone and normally everyone comes to me for advice or mental help which normally I am ok at I'm not a licensed therapist but they say it helps but the past few months I've been useless, I haven't been able to help anyone, not me not my boyfriend, not anyone and I feel so useless without helping someone
Okay if you can’t offer solutions to anyone atleast they know ur there to listen
That’s enough help as is
And your not useless just because you can’t solve everyone’s problems
No human can. Don’t hold yourself to super high standards
It’s fine to not be able to do something you’ve been doing for a long time too
That’s just called burning out
But it's not to me
I've been doing this for so long that if I don't do something to help I feel as if I failed them because I can't help solve their problems
I think that if I can't fix my problems I'll push them aside and help others
I have been there too. It’s called being burnt out
I promise it’s not your fault, it’s just the fact that you’re stressed from what you’re seeing people go through, I’m sure. I have been there, believe me.