banned from another dc server

[distant anvil]

some people are so fucking frustrating to deal with. i'm a gay[potentiallt achillean] transgender demiboy. i did another intro in a small server b/c i want to make friends, and apparently being a trans guy in a server run by transfems is an attack on feminism. got banned, and told to come back when i 'was a girl again'.

like, why? it took me so long to realize i was more along the binary of trans, still not fully but still. i don't date or want to date women, and because of that, i'm abandoning all that there is to feminism.

i have like no friends irl, and now i can't even use dc to make any. fuck my life man.

it's the 5th time it's happened to me since i've realized i wasn't just non-binary

like i get it if you want your space to be for just women but like, put that in the server description maybe? don't be like 'all inclusive' and then ban me for being me

[sterile juniper]

Honestly that’s just stupid, if they’re so inclusive then why ban you? Being like that just makes trans people look bad.

Luckily, doesn’t work for me because I believe that not everyone is the same, but I know how people’s mind works, someone like you does something bad, you’re involved.
Hopefully you’ll like it here @distant anvil! ^^

[rose inlet]

That seems massively counter intuitive. How is it gonna be inclusive and not inclusive at the same fucking time

🤦‍♂️

[sterile juniper]

I’m sure others here will accept you for who you are :3

[rose inlet]

Absolute dumbasses making that server ngl. Ignore everything they say

[distant anvil]

thanks mate. i definitely don't hold resentment towards transfems, some i've met are super kind, but it's definitely making me less willing to put myself out there, which is working wonders against my mental health

[sterile juniper]

Its understandable where y’all coming from, especially since you have terrible history with them :3