I hate being Bi

[restive laurel]

I understand that. I'm Pan, and was bi when I was figuring myself out. I completely get where your coming from bc i was in the same situation. There's no harm in exploring, but it's difficult when you're already with someone.

If you wanna talk, always feel free to DM me!

[livid goblet]

it will be haunting you forever as what is already happening with me , I always ask myself how it would be being with a woman oh god I would die to live that feeling To the fullest with a woman , but in your situation you are already with someone; but look if you can't share those feelings with him then how can he be a safe space? I know it is hard to accept such thing for him, but if you ever had some struggles in the future you gotta have a chance to experience what it would be with a woman, and I hate being bi too .

[merry phoenix]

Here is the thing I don’t know if I could be with a women never have and I love my boyfriend to death and I have talked about this with him and we are both confused cause those feelings for wanting a women go away fast it’s those brief controllable periods, I would never cheat ever but sometimes I think about what it would be like to have a wife that’s why I wish I was just fully gay or fully straight never have to worry about what it’s like to experience someone else

Here is my main issue I don’t want to break up with my boyfriend I love him more then anyone and I am attracted to him a ton I think he is drop dead beautiful I also hate the feeling of seeing a beautiful women as that a hot women like a piece of meat it’s a terrible thing to see I don’t want to look at women for there looks I just don’t want to be attracted to them anymore as it’s wrong on how I feel

I know that’s it’s screwed what u said I’ve seen so many beautiful women that I would love to call my wife if I was single and that’s a terrible thought to have I love my boyfriend and I hate having feelings of being with someone else it’s just screwed up

[livid goblet]

i got you girl don't worry .

[merry phoenix]

I’m a guy tho

I don’t understand the gay slang mh boyfriend says it all the time and it confuses me

[livid goblet]

I am really sorry I thought you were a woman , in this case I don't know how I can help you , but in general your feelings are accepted, and it is really normal to have them just ignore the idea of looking to women whenever you had those feelings .

[merry phoenix]

If it helps my case my friends say because of the type of women I like my friends said I would be the wife instead of the husband

[livid goblet]

you have feminine energy more than masculine one ?

and other question why are you attracted to women in the first place ? Is that because of their looks or sth more deeply?

[merry phoenix]

I think women are beautiful I’ve met a ton of amazing kind and smart women I’m attracted to women who are smart and strong who are independent I find that attractive also I like women over 6 foot but I ain’t picky also my boyfriend finds those girls attractive to and if I do give off feminine energy it’s cause in my relationship my boyfriend is the man of it if he tells me to do something I’ll do it even tho I’m like 3 inches taller and 50 pounds heavier he likes to baby me