#Help with poly stuffs?

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dire quartz
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So this will be short n sweet but I think I'm poly (the multiple ppl lover kind) but I haven't been in a poly relationship, like I'd like to be in one, I'd love a love triangle but I just don't know bc Idk if I'd be jealous or not, I feel like there's smt wrong with me 😢

spiral wolf
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i'm polyamorous and recently have gotten to the point of transitioning from monogamy, and i'd suggest you find content by a creator calle DecolonizingLove i believe on instagram, although idk if they're on tiktok or not

they've helped me see through the compulsive-monogamy that society forces us to follow, and see if it's for me, which i've come to feel is

but it might help you get a better idea on it as well as teach you some very vital stuff for if you do practice polyamory because it's easy to go into it and unknowingly/accidentally hurt others! /gen

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but i'd suggest to help better understand yourself in regards to what relationship orientation is right for you, the only way you can do that is educate yourself properly and then maybe actually give it a try (:

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(i don't have any other advice yet tho because ive been with the partner i'm transitioning to polyamory with for 4 years and my discovering i'm transmasc, demi+grey-aroace and pan are what caused me to also look at what is my better suited relationship structure, so i have yet to actually find any new partners to start getting experience)