helloooo so uhm im bi and i think for years my family suspects im lgbt (i think my mom thought i was a lesbian at first, when i was 12) i denied being gay or anything to my mom when she asked a while ago but i feel like now after my depression is getting better its been on my mind a lot more and im starting to feel comfortable being bisexual. and i was thinking of coming out to my brother first! like tn or soon lol. abt my dad- i guess hes a little homophobic but idrk. ik he doesnt like my tio bc of how my tio used to treat my mom. and my mom is an ally, but it didnt really feel like it when i was 13 and she said "youre too young to be thinking these things" and how at my gradutation ceramony last may she kept calling this girl who was preforming a lesbian bc she was wearing a suit instead or a dress. sooo idrk HOW to tell my parents.. but for my brother it might be easier bc i dont really think he thinks im striaght. some advice on how to come out to them 3 would be great!! and like how should i bring it up to my brother?
#I need help coming out as bi
peak lintel
covert cairn
I'm in kinda the same situation. I would just bring it up normally to your brother. Your parents are also right for what they said in my eyes. And if you're still unsure about coming out to your parents, just wait until you feel comfortable doing so.
pearl zealot
I'm in kinda the same situation. I would just bring it up normally to your broth...
same here
peak lintel
HEEHEEH I JUST CAME OUT TO MY BROTHER AHAHAH HE WAS WAY TO CHILL WITH IT BUT I LOVED ITT I SAID I LIKE A GIRL BUT I ALSO STILL LIKE GUYS AND HE SAID "okay cool" and i said is that all you have to say? and he said "yea" and i said "....so thats all you have to say about me liking girls and guys?" and he said "well a couple years ago u told me u saw a pretty girl at the store and were questioning" and i was like WHATTT cause i dont remember that at allll and then he said "so what do you call yourself or who do you like" and i said "im bisexual" AAYAYAYYY