#hep ig?

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silver light
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hey! this may seem silly or not something that that can be helped; but i’m rlly stressed rn.

my best friend of 2 years recently came out to me as gay (about a month ago) - i fully support him, i am gay myself. we’ve both mutually decided to keep that on the low on not tell anyone - he’s the only person (irl) who knows im gay and im the only person who knows he’s gay. it’s been great.

a few hours ago, i confessed my feelings for him - i like him. i always brushed it off because he was never out as gay and at one point was in a relationship and i really didn’t want to ruin that for him.

i wasn’t necessarily asking him to be with me, i just wanted to confess my feelings for him i’ve had for a few months.

i don’t know if anyone can give advice but i am SO scared rn - he said he needs time to think about it.

is there anything you guys think i should do, or should look out for? i am really clueless and stressed.

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oh ignore the title i messed that up 😭😭

knotty cosmos
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Just let it be imo

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You can't do much about it atp unfortunately. I'd say just be patient and wait, distract urself somehow.

past ice
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Hmm… if he needs time to process the thing, then give to to him

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Or anything. Be kind.

silver light
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yeah - i think i’m mainly worried about ruining our friendship.

past ice
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Don’t be egoistic like me

silver light
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i have told him to please not feel pressured to make a decision quickly - or even make one at all

past ice
knotty cosmos